February 2012
3 posts
7 tags
sentientcitizen:
Question: are demisexual individuals queer?
Answer: YES NOW FUCK OFF AND STOP IDENTITY POLICING.
Longer answer: seriously, yes, it’s a sexuality that falls outside the dominant sexual paradigm, therefore it’s queer. It falls on the gray-a spectrum. Don’t actually fuck off, I’m sorry I got angry and swore. Come back and let’s talk about this; put your questions and comments in...
On identifying as queer
freibiergesicht:
livingdemisexually:
My sexuality is not normative. But it looks normative. My romantic interest is primarily in men and male identified people and I’m a cis woman whose appearance is pretty femme. When I spend time with the people I date, we look like a straight couple.
But sexual attraction is a whole different story for me. Visually, I prefer stereotypically feminine...
January 2012
4 posts
Different types of attraction.
pompadoursandpincurls:
asexualeducation:
Sexual attraction: When one desires to have sexual relations with another specific person or persons. Sometimes it is felt along with other forms of attraction such as, romance, friendship.
“That guy is so damn sexy, I could take him to bed and shag him all night long.”
Romantic attraction: When one desires to have a romantic relationship with another...
2 tags
“The fact that asexuals are going to end up alone makes me so sad…. I just don’t...”
– Very liberal LGBT females talking to me (a closeted grAy-sexual) about asexual relationships. Made me feel like I can’t explain to people who I am or how I feel. (via microaggressions)
The abject ignorance of so many supposedly open minded people in LGBTQ* community when it comes to the asexuality...
pompadoursandpincurls:
try the fucking aspic: demisexual apologism in light of un-radical bullshit dailymurf:
alexthefab:
mikroblogolas:
No wonder the term “demisexual” caught on — in a culture where your radicalness is measured by your sexual availability, your openness to sex with every gender and body type possible, your embrace of poly relationships and kink; a culture…
Yea,...
On identifying as queer
My sexuality is not normative. But it looks normative. My romantic interest is primarily in men and male identified people and I’m a cis woman whose appearance is pretty femme. When I spend time with the people I date, we look like a straight couple.
But sexual attraction is a whole different story for me. Visually, I prefer stereotypically feminine bodies, though ones that are different...
December 2011
5 posts
8 tags
5 tags
5 tags
9 tags
I can’t always write about demisexuality on my main blog, but I need a space for it. That’s what this is for.